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In Person

IN-PERSON DATING SAFETY & INSTRUCTIONS

Our selection for a match has been carefully made based on shared interests and attributes. Finding someone who shares not only your moral values but also your worldview is a crucial aspect of Dating Noah's matchmaking process, so this particular moment holds great excitement and promise. But for the sake of your safety and comfort, there are some necessary precautions and considerations.

 

We kindly request that you ensure your meeting takes place in a well-lit and public location. Being punctual is important, so please make every effort to arrive on time for your date. In case of any delay, we appreciate it if you inform your matchmaker via phone of your anticipated tardiness, so they can relay the message to your date. It is essential to note that Dating Noah does not provide criminal or background screenings. Therefore, it is your responsibility to exercise caution when interacting with someone you have just met, in the same way as you would with meeting any other stranger in a public setting. 

To further enhance your safety, remember to inform a family member or friend about your whereabouts, and keep your mobile phone easily accessible. If at any point during your date you feel uncomfortable or uneasy, please do not hesitate to leave and inform your matchmaker. We strongly discourage sharing personal and confidential information, such as your phone number or home address at this stage. If the need for such information arises in the future, your matchmaker will assist you in facilitating it.

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Online

GROOMING, MAKE-UP, AND TIDYING YOUR SPACE

Advice For Women

 

First impressions can make or break a potential match. Once attraction is established (which can happen within minutes of the date), the focus will shift to more important assessments. As a Torah adherent Noahide, you are morally elevated and recognize the inherent value of each individual beyond their physical appearance. However, attraction still plays an important role within the bigger picture of your potential relationship. Please take into consideration your appearance and treat this date with the same level of care and attention you would if you were meeting someone in person. Doing so demonstrates respect for your potential match. Avoid the use of virtual backgrounds, as they may cause blurring on the edges of your image.

 

There is a common misconception that in order for a man to remain attracted to you over the long run, he needs to see you at your most average or even at your worst. This belief insinuates that if a man desires to be physically attracted to his potential spouse, then he is superficial and not worth dating. However, this attitude fails to understand the fact that men are visual beings. While it is true that genuine love should be unconditional, relationships naturally evolve and couples should become more relaxed and comfortable with each other - over a period of time. Expecting a high level of comfort and familiarity without putting in the effort to earn it is presumptuous. Therefore, it is a gesture of respect to present the best version of yourself on a first date, as you would if you were the host of a special event. We encourage you to let your hair down or wrap it nicely, if you are from a culture that wraps. If you wear make-up on special occasions, please consider your upcoming date a special occasion. 


It is important to note that the recommendation above should not be misconstrued as encouragement to exude sexual energy on a first date. On the contrary, such behavior is highly discouraged. It is crucial to keep sexual energy reserved for the person who is your life partner and not to offer it to anyone else prematurely.



Advice For Men


Two often overlooked areas of preparation are grooming oneself and tidying the room where your camera will be visible. You may understandably neglect these aspects because virtual dates are usually held from the comfort of your home. This sense of comfort might cause you to put minimal effort into your appearance and background. However, more mindful clients understand that the first date is not only meant to establish long term goals and connection, but it also establishes physical attraction. Avoid appearing on camera wearing an unflattering t-shirt, neglecting hair and facial hair grooming, or in a messy room. 

First impressions can make or break a potential match. Once attraction is established (which can happen within minutes of the date), the focus will shift to more important assessments. As a Torah adherent Noahide (a Noahide who follows the 7 Noahide laws according to the Torah) you are morally elevated and recognize the inherent value of each individual beyond their physical appearance. However, attraction still plays an important role within the bigger picture of your potential relationship. Please take into consideration your appearance and treat this date with the same level of care and attention you would if you were meeting someone in person. Doing so demonstrates respect for your potential match. While it is true that genuine love should be unconditional, relationships naturally evolve and couples should become more relaxed and comfortable with each other - over a period of time. Expecting a high level of comfort and familiarity without putting in the effort to earn it is presumptuous. Therefore, it is a gesture of respect to present the best version of yourself on a first date. Dress as you would if you were the host of a special event.

 

Finally, we suggest avoiding the use of virtual backgrounds, as they cause blurring on the edges of your image.


ONLINE DATING SAFETY GUIDELINES

Your match has been carefully selected based on shared interests and attributes. Discovering someone who not only aligns with your moral values but also shares your worldview is a vital component in fostering personal growth. This moment in the matchmaking process holds immense excitement and promise.

Because we prioritize your safety and comfort above all else, we discourage the sharing of personal and confidential information, such as your phone number or home address, at this stage. If the need for such information arises in the future, your matchmaker will assist you in facilitating it.

TECHNICAL INFORMATION

Your virtual date will most likely take place in one of our Dating Noah online meeting rooms. One of our Dating Noah team members or your matchmaker will be in charge of organizing your date and preparing everything for you. As a safety measure and for quality purposes, all dating rooms are automatically recorded. Make sure that the area where you will be during the date is well-lit and be ready to appear on camera as soon as you log in, as there is no waiting room. Your matchmaker would have already arranged a mutually agreed upon meeting time prior to your date. Afterwards, you will receive two emails.

The first email will serve as your "Confirmation" letter, while the second email will provide you with details about your "Zoom Passcode & Information", to access the virtual dating room. If you do not receive these emails at least (5) or more hours before your date, please check your spam folder, or contact your matchmaker immediately.

Apart from following the sign-in instructions provided below, there is nothing else for you to do except enjoy your date!

Accessing Your Dating Room

1. To start, download the "Zoom" application onto your desktop or access it through the Zoom app on your mobile device.

2. Next, open the initial email titled "Confirmed:..." and ensure you check the designated arrival time according to your time zone. This information can be found under the "(Male or Female) Meeting Time Zone" section.

3. After that, locate the "Location" section within the email and click on the provided link to access your designated meeting room (refer to the image below).

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4. Next, open your second email with the subject, "Your Date Is Scheduled - Preparing For Your Upcoming Date". That email will provide you with a quick access link to your meeting room and information to help you prepare for your upcoming date.

5. Adjust your microphone and camera.

6. Enjoy your date!

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOUR DATE?

Within (5) days from the time of your date, your matchmaker will reach out to you for your feedback. Please take that time to reflect on the conversation, and the overall experience you had, and decide whether you would like to continue getting to know your potential match more via another date. You and your matchmaker can decide whether that second date should be in person or virtually. If you are unsure about proceeding with a second date, and have concerns or questions, please discuss that with your matchmaker. If you have made your determination before your matchmaker reaches out to you, please contact them with your feedback. We highly recommend having a conversation with your matchmaker before moving on. 

May the Creator of your heart and soul lead you to your happily ever after. To life and love!

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Essential Reading

MAKING THE MOST OF YOUR CONVERSATIONS

One day, in the future, you will inevitably become someone's spouse. Hence, it is crucial not to squander valuable time with someone whom you are still in the process of getting to know, as you have not yet confirmed whether they are your ideal match. Instead, seize every opportunity on each date to engage in meaningful conversations that will enable you to truly get to know if the person you are speaking to is someone you may spend a lifetime with.

We suggest the following books to support you in preparing for your upcoming dates:

Eight Dates

Essential Conversations For a Lifetime of Love

by John Gottman, PhD and Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD

How to Make Your Long-Distance Relationship Work and Flourish

A Couple's Guide to Being Apart and Staying Happy

by Tamsen Butler

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